Here is a lexicon of some of these terms and few translations.
A swinger is a person who has sex with other people for FREE.
If money is paid by or to a person for sexual services this is NOT swinging, it is prostitution.
I have put together a list below - probably not a fully comprehensive
one - to try and help people understand what these abbreviations mean.
Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
Bondage and discipline
Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive.
A large male homo sexual, often very hairy.
Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. the person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
A fetish where a girl, or girls, occasionally a guy, lies naked and lets, or helps guys masturbate and ejaculate over their naked bodies.
Male who is used by couples to impregnate the female
A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. the rooms are almost ways in the same house/hotel.
A woman over 40 who likes younger men for sex.
Sperm left in or on a girls body.
In swinging, a man whose wife is having sex with other men, often while he is either made to stay home and wait, or is forced to watch..
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking
Gay Black Male
A girl/woman who likes sex with groups of men - (enjoys gangbangs).
Gay White Male
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex.
A woman who goes out and has sex with other men, then returns home to her husband while telling him about her adventures.
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.
Long Term Relationship
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
An older woman who is an object of desire to younger males.
No Strings attached.
A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment.
A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
the term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. the first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging.
Same Room Sex
Single White Female
Single White Male
Young, attractive male homosexual
Nickname for the almost mythical creature - A single female looking for males or couples.
A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
Very Well Endowed - a very large male organ.