BE HYGIENIC
A
no-brainer, surely? Apparently not. There are people out there—grubby people—who step out of the house in search of indiscriminate sex
without showering first."Freshening
up your bits is essential,
fresh breath
clean body
Remember it’s about being at your best!
HAVE A HIGH DISAPPOINTMENT THRESHOLD
Don't go out expecting Eyes Wide Shut, or, for that matter, anything resembling the idea you have in your head.
If you've been fantasizing about specific scenarios, you're bound to be disappointed.
LEAVE YOUR PHONE IN THE LOCKER ROOM
Perhaps
unsurprisingly, devices with built-in cameras and social media apps are
not at all welcome at swingers events. Photographing and then sharing a
scene—even if it's one you are involved with—is not OK."Even putting out a clip on Snapchat is a no-no"
NO MEANS NO
Swingers
events may be populated by people who are generous with the physical
expression of their sexuality, but they are never a free-for-all. Unless
you get unequivocal consent, then back off.
Be Friendly and courteous.
The number one way to “not get laid” in any situation, especially in the
swinging lifestyle is to be total LY anti-social . You will find
that you make friends with way more couples by simply smiling, saying
hello and engaging in conversations. If someone offers you something you
are not interested in, no need to be rude, a simple “No Thank You” will
do.
No Drama
It’s not very often but it’s quite normal for couples to have
disagreements while at a party. This is mostly due to lack of
communication. It’s ok. It happens. This however does not mean you get
to ruin the night of everyone else by arguing or fighting where everyone
else can see or hear you. Take your drama home, or to the car. If you
can’t work out your drama, it’s best to stay home until you are ready to
communicate properly and be a part of the lifestyle community.
Respect your partner's boundaries.
No
matter how excited you are about your sexcapade together, remember that
everyone involved is a human being. Let finding out what they like and
don't like be an exciting part of the process, . A hard no is a hard no.
No, if's and's or butt's about it.
Leave your drama at the door. Swinging is an escape from the everyday. That's what makes it so exciting.
Respect the swingers club’s rules
Protecting our VISITORS is of the utmost importance. when
visiting for the first time, WE will go over the club rules with you in
addition to taking you on a guided tour. The club has these rules in
place so everyone will feel secure and to ensure the best experience
possible for those in attendance. The staff will answer questions and WE have “host” couples (seasoned swingers) who are also
available to answer any questions in addition to welcoming the
“newbies.”
Drink responsibly
I can’t think of a worse way to end what could have been a great evening
by consuming too much alcohol. To much of a good thing can really get
in the way of a successful sexual encounter.
If you find alcohol is starting to dominate your evenings out, why not put in place a “sober” swing night and see what happens?
Drinking up your courage? Not a good idea on such an evening. Alcohol is
enjoyed in moderation here. If at all. After all, everything should be
perceived with all the senses. And no one wants to let a fully drunk
visitor get close to them. Swinging is voluntary and free of charge.
At least the sex. Of course, the clubs charge admission.
Safer sex is very important . Condoms will therefore be
available .
It is not only about HIV, syphilis or hepatitis B. Other sexually transmitted infections such
as HP viruses or chlamydia are not only transmitted through sexual
intercourse, but also through oral sex or the shared use of sex toys.
In a swingers club the motto is: “Everything can, nothing must”. This
actually means that you can do anything you want to do and feel like
doing in the club, but you don’t have to do anything that other people want to do if you don’t like it.