A no-brainer, surely? Apparently not. There are people out there—grubby people—who step out of the house in search of indiscriminate sex without showering first."Freshening up your bits is essential,
Remember it’s about being at your best!
HAVE A HIGH DISAPPOINTMENT THRESHOLD
Don't go out expecting Eyes Wide Shut, or, for that matter, anything resembling the idea you have in your head.
If you've been fantasizing about specific scenarios, you're bound to be disappointed.
LEAVE YOUR PHONE IN THE LOCKER ROOM
Perhaps unsurprisingly, devices with built-in cameras and social media apps are not at all welcome at swingers events. Photographing and then sharing a scene—even if it's one you are involved with—is not OK."Even putting out a clip on Snapchat is a no-no"
NO MEANS NO
Swingers events may be populated by people who are generous with the physical expression of their sexuality, but they are never a free-for-all. Unless you get unequivocal consent, then back off.
Be Friendly and courteous.
The number one way to “not get laid” in any situation, especially in the swinging lifestyle is to be total LY anti-social . You will find that you make friends with way more couples by simply smiling, saying hello and engaging in conversations. If someone offers you something you are not interested in, no need to be rude, a simple “No Thank You” will do.
It’s not very often but it’s quite normal for couples to have disagreements while at a party. This is mostly due to lack of communication. It’s ok. It happens. This however does not mean you get to ruin the night of everyone else by arguing or fighting where everyone else can see or hear you. Take your drama home, or to the car. If you can’t work out your drama, it’s best to stay home until you are ready to communicate properly and be a part of the lifestyle community.
Respect your partner's boundaries.
No matter how excited you are about your sexcapade together, remember that everyone involved is a human being. Let finding out what they like and don't like be an exciting part of the process, . A hard no is a hard no.
No, if's and's or butt's about it.
Leave your drama at the door. Swinging is an escape from the everyday. That's what makes it so exciting.
Respect the swingers club’s rules
Protecting our VISITORS is of the utmost importance. when visiting for the first time, WE will go over the club rules with you in addition to taking you on a guided tour. The club has these rules in place so everyone will feel secure and to ensure the best experience possible for those in attendance. The staff will answer questions and WE have “host” couples (seasoned swingers) who are also available to answer any questions in addition to welcoming the “newbies.”
I can’t think of a worse way to end what could have been a great evening by consuming too much alcohol. To much of a good thing can really get in the way of a successful sexual encounter.
If you find alcohol is starting to dominate your evenings out, why not put in place a “sober” swing night and see what happens?